THREE Common Misconceptions about SEX

Sex is a controversial topic which trends anywhere its motioned. It is a practice engaged by both the young and old these days. It is something of concern to note that many young people do not take this topic serious though the topic turns the ear on immediately its mentioned. There are several controversies and misconceptions surrounding the topic.


The first we will be discussing is that a relationship can’t stand without SEX. This is absolutely false as there are many thriving relationships out there that the partners don’t engage in any sexual activity. I was chatting with a girl last year and she told me that her boyfriend wants it quit because she’s refusing to give in to his sexual advances. I told her to stay calm and let him go and GBAM!!! That was the joker. He left and came back with stories….Another friend of mine I talked to, I told her that about it and she discussed it with her partner and today, their relationship is thriving. To the guys out there, I say that “If you haven’t found a better than thing than sex in a woman, you will never value her.


The second misconception people hold is that SEX is bad and as such self-service is advisable. Many young people label SEX as being bad hereby encouraging self service. This is totally wrong because SEX can only be bad when practiced in the wrong time and form. There are beliefs associated with having sex because I can remember my mother talking to me about what holds in her society while she was growing as you could only have sex when married. The society today permits pre-marital sex hereby making it a norm to have sex among single folks but it’s wrong to do so. Those who claim SEX is bad and hereby self service are causing more harm than good to themselves. My conclusion on this is that SEX is good when done in wedlock and bad when out of it and self service isn’t good.


The third misconception is that because some beliefs condemn premarital sex, I should get married so as to have sex OR in other words they get married because of sex. Inasmuch as SEX is a pivot for a very sound marriage It shouldn’t be the reason to get into one.
There is also this wrong assumption that you can make a man stay via SEX. This is very wrong. No man will love you the more because you are having SEX with him in a dating relationship.
Always keep that keep in mind else you would easily give yourself out to someone who isn’t right for you.


Singles must be very cautious when it comes to this issue of sex because it has caused psychological damage to so many that they couldn’t recover from.
Conclusively, men should endeavor to ENJOY sex with their partners and anyone who feels regret for engaging in SEX, I dare to say she/he isn’t ripe for it.
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